The information in this list is not intended to replace conventional forms of medical treatment. If you are under the care of a doctor, you should continue to follow your doctor’s advice.
The knowledge presented here can be used to enhance the healing effects of almost any kind of conventional medical treatment. However, it should not be used to replace prescribed medication or as a substitute for any prescribed form of medical treatment without consulting your doctor.
The statements that I make about the relationship between ‘conflict shock’ and illnesses do not always agree with current medical thinking and I encourage you to seek a balanced perspective on your own illness by consulting your doctor.
'Possible Cause' The human body is an intricate biological machine intertwined with unique, human psychological makeup, which gives rise to different, but equally valid, 'possible causes'. A country's history may affect the experience of its people; culture can be traced in local disease patterns; language can affect the expression of a disease.
Bearing this in mind, 'possible cause' is used to describe the root cause of diseases and illnesses in a general way. Please seek out a doctor or alternative therapist to help you translate and explain this information in light of your own unique circumstances.
'Conflict (of)'The term 'conflict' or 'conflict of' is often used instead of 'the root cause', 'stress related to' or 'conflict shock' to simplify the unnecessary use of jargon.
'Generally' The term 'generally' is used to mean 'most popular' in cases where in actual fact there is more than one explanation.
'Memory of' 'Memory of' is a term used to explain the effect of 'conflict' where the origin is in previous generations/ancestors. (People may prefer to use the term 'in my past life'...)
Symptom List
A
Acne (Facial Acne)
Possible Cause: Conflict between personal aesthetic devaluation and self-presentation. Concerns about appearance and insecurities about physical attractiveness.
Example: A young woman who has broken up with her partner wears a lot of makeup in an effort to make herself attractive to other men.
Allergy
Allergies may be made up of many different components including (but not limited to) the following:
Possible cause: Conflict of separation causes allergies and we look for a separation in the allergic person's history. The type of allergy will be determined by the allergen that you are in contact with when the separation occurs.
The unconscious mind makes the connection between the allergen and the separation. Each time that you are in contact with the allergen, it unconsciously triggers the stress of a separation, which results in an allergic reaction.
Itchy eyes: The function of the eyes is to see, as you know. During separation, in the case of someone with itchy eyes, they actually saw the beloved one going away.
Allergy that may cause death: The separation is likely to have been the death of a loved one.
Sinus: The nose (via the sinus cavities) is for smelling so when the separation happened, you smelled (for example) particles of hay in the air to explain an allergic reaction to hay.
Note: With allergies, the root causes are the same, whatever the allergy. The differences are in the allergens, which cause the individual allergies.
Ankle
Possible cause:Conflict of direction, torn between staying and leaving; any choices or direction in life that I am in conflict with. I don’t know what direction to go, it could be professionally or romantically.
Autism
Possible cause: Conflict of secrets that can’t be heard. What I do not want to talk about.
Note: The source cause usually finds its roots during the project purpose and sometimes in the previous generation. Parents try to make the child talk when they have an issue about something that they either do not want to or can’t talk about. It can also be something that can’t be heard.
Note: Autism is a highly variable neurodevelopment disorder; there is much more required to understand autism. This is just an idea of what we are looking for.
B
Back (Lower Back)
Possible cause: Conflict of sexual devaluation. It could be from adultery, incest.
Note: The lower back is involved in the motion necessary for the sexual act and so problems with the lower back often relate to sexual matters. Example: My partner had an affair or I had an affair and I regret it very much.
Belly
(Big Belly that looks like pregnancy, for men and women.)
Possible cause: Conflict of a miscarriage, abortion, or death of a baby.
Note: The person is trying unconsciously to finish a pregnancy. The cause may find its source in the person’s life, in his/her previous brother or sister, in the Project/Sense, or somewhere in the genealogy.
Bladder
Possible cause: Conflict caused by not being able to mark my territory.
Example: A woman owns a chalet in a quiet and beautiful location out of town. Friends and family come all the time for visits on weekends. However, every Sunday evening when everybody is gone, she is by herself cleaning the whole place. Nobody ever helps her to maintain the place over the weekend and she is left to do all this work alone. She needs to 'mark her territory'. The result is that she has bladder issues.
Note:In the wilderness, wild animals mark their territory with urine.
Breast Cancer
Possible cause: Conflict of wanting/needing to nurture but not being able to nurture (possibly nurse or breastfeed).
Example:A woman's husband has cancer and none of his family made any effort to help take care of him. They were all too busy working and living their own lives. His wife worked all day and spent all of her evenings caring for him without any help. It was traumatic for her because none of his children or siblings would make any time to care for him. A few weeks later, she was diagnosed with breast cancer on the right side.
Note:There are many kinds of breast cancer and each one has its own specific root cause.
Note: For a right-handed woman: The left breast is related to a woman's own children. The right breast is related to anybody that is not her child, such as her mother, father, husband, brother, sister, friend, beloved pet. For a left-handed woman, the opposite is true.
Birthmark on the face
Possible cause: Conflict of a shame that needs to be hidden. Example: Having had sex before marriage and gotten pregnant, the parents rush to get married so nobody will notice that they had sex out of wedlock. This baby may be born with a birthmark.
Note: The cause is often found during the project/sense. We need to ask the parents what happened during the project/sense. What is this child trying to express? What is his hidden or unexpressed message?
What are the parents trying to hide?
Blindness
The source cause usually finds its roots during the project-sense.
Possible cause: Generally, it’s something that is very high stressful to see, so I would rather not see it. For example, finding a dead body.
Or it may result from a situation that I don’t want anybody to see at all costs.
Example: The preacher is having an affair in the church and he is very stressed out at being caught (seen). If a child is conceived from the affair, he/she maybe be blind to prevent others seeing the sexual act.
Note: The brain can only give an instruction to cells that are under its own control. This child is conceived in the stress of not being seen, but he cannot blind anybody else but himself.
Note: Various scales have been developed to describe the extent of vision loss and define blindness. Every part of the eye has a specific function, which mean the source cause will be in relation to the function.
Bulimia
Possible cause: Caused by the concern of running out of food and starving to death. Usually from the project-sense: Wasn’t breastfed and was starving to death. The feeling is not so much about being abandoned as being rejected by his mother. Note: When a baby is breastfed, he is against his mother. When a bulimic is upset, he is trying to fill up his stomach with food because this is the only way he knows to feel with his mother.
Bursitis
Possible cause: Conflict of self devaluation related to the dexterity of the execution of the movement, which causes bursitis, not the repetitive movement.
“See "How the mind reacts when stress becomes too heavy”
Example: A grocery clerk is wearing a brace on the wrist because she feels self –devaluated by her job.
Note: It’s a belief that is caused by repetitive actions, for example, every grocery clerk does the same repeated motions.
Brain Tumour
Possible cause: Intellectual deep self devaluation. I am not smart enough. I should think better.
Bronchitis
Possible cause: Violent verbal fight or argue.
C
Caesarean
Consequences from caesareans: Pregnancy is a project that needs be followed through until the end to be completed. If the pregnancy is interrupted by a caesarean, later on, this child will begin something like a project and will quit before it’s completed.
Cataracts
Possible cause: Something that has been seen but that is hard to accept. Thoughts such as: I cannot believe what I see. I don’t want to see what I am seeing.
Example: A mother can’t stand to see her daughter dating a certain guy.
Canker sore
Possible cause: Something that I didn’t to express verbally.
Carpal Tunnel
Similar then Bursitis
Cellulitis
Possible cause: Conflict of silhouette: On legs or belly: My legs or my belly don’t look very sexy. Cellulitis is a syndrome that affects mostly women, because for women it is more important than men to look beautiful.
Cervix
Possible cause: Conflict of adultery.
Example: My man penetrated another woman.
Cholesterol
Possible cause: Inability to rely on others, either they are unwilling or considered incompetent. Thoughts such as: I have to do everything by myself, others are incapable or refuse to help. I have to count on myself because I am on my own.
Other possible cause: Dissolution of the family. Thoughts such as: No one sticks together any longer. I am on my own and incapable of unifying my family.
Congenital diseases
Possible cause: Usually from the project-sense. The child expresses the parents’ stress with congenital diseases.
See project-sense
Conjonctivis
Possible cause: Conflict of separation accompanied by a disgusting, revolting feeling.
Example: I saw my friend playing doctor with my sister.
Constipation
Possible cause: A “crappiness” that I can’t digest and am holding onto. I can’t get rid of this rotten feeling.
Example: A woman goes to see a house for sale. The real estate agent made her sign a visitor form. A few weeks later, she receives a letter saying that she has to refund $5000 dollars to the real estate agency because she didn’t respect the contract sale. She felt very crappy about the situation and withheld her emotions.
Cracked lips
Possible cause: Conflict of separation by kissing
Cystitis
See bladder
D
Dandruff
Possible cause: Conflict of separation with a lack of understanding.
Example: A mother dropped her young boy at a foster home without telling him anything. He never understood why he was abandoned.
Depression
Possible cause: A traumatic event causes feelings of guilt and self-devaluation. He/she can’t sleep well because he/she is thinking about how he/she should have done something differently to have prevented it from happening.
Example: A young woman didn’t see her child run away from the playground and get hit by a car. She feels guilty and deeply self-devaluated. She never gets over what she should have done better (perfectly). She will have trouble sleeping because she is unconsciously thinking of what she should have done so it would never have happened.
Note: A person with depression feels permanently guilty about everything and also is deeply self-devaluated. He/she is stuck in the past and doesn’t live in the present. A depressed person thinks of what he should have done. Insomnia and perfectionism are just a few of many symptoms that are experienced. Diabetes Diabetes may be made up of many different components including, but not limited to, the following:
Diabetes
Diabetes may be made up of many different components including, but not limited to, the following:
Possible cause: Situations that I resist strongly, with repugnancy. If atrophy of the muscles accompany the diabetes, feelings of powerlessness may be found as part of the root cause.
Example: Somebody was attacked and beat up by a group of people. “I wish I was stronger and able to defend myself better (increase of sugar and resistance). I was totally powerless against them and they were so disgusting to beat me up like that.”
Note: People with diabetes are not the type of people to see a counselor or a doctor, because they resist them. They resist strongly, especially against something that they perceive as more powerful than them, such as authority. It is common that a person with diabetes is a “clean freak”. This confirms the conflict of repugnance, the need for things to be clean because “unclean is disgusting.”
Drug Abuse
Possible cause: Usually from the project-sense, often a program of auto destruction.
Example: Unconsciously, one of the parents wanted the death of this child.
Dry eye
Possible cause: I am not allowed to cry.
Example: My mother doesn’t allow me to cry.
Example: A loved one is dying in the hospital bed and I won’t allow myself to cry in his presence.
E
Eczema
Possible cause: Conflict of separation from a loved one. The separation may be caused by the death of someone.
Note: There is a different symbolic meaning depending on the location of the eczema on the body.
Endometriosis
Possible cause: The husband is often having affairs or he is often with other women. The husband has impregnated another woman, a woman outside his marriage.
Epicondylitis
See elbow
F
Fibromyalgia
Possible cause: It’s a very great trauma that I feel paralyzed in place. I can’t go in any direction and I can’t stay where I am.
Example: I see my father beating up my mother: I am so scared and feel paralyzed in place. I want to leave and in the meantime I am standing still and can’t leave.
Fingers
Fingers issues may be made up of many different components including but not limited to the following:
- Thumb: Life or death
- Index finger: Social judgment, being pointed.
- Middle finger: Sexuality
- Ring finger: Association, marriage.
- Little finger: Secret
Flat feet
See foot
Foot
Generally feet are mother related.
Ball of the foot (Metatarsalgia)
Possible cause: Having nobody to turn to in a time of need
For example: I am in trouble and I need help. I have nobody to turn to, even my mother would not support or help me.
Flat feet
Need to stay closer to my mother.
Forceps
A person who is born with forceps gets very upset when somebody tries to pull him/her or force him to do something that he/she is not ready for. It’s because he/she was pulled and forced during birth.
G
Gallbladder
Possible cause: Conflict of rancour, anger and rage.
H
Heart Problems
Possible cause: Generally the heart issues are about love, either lost love or the loss of my beloved. “He/she doesn’t love me any more.”
Example: A man had heart condition after his wife left him for his best friend.
Note: Heart diseases find their source cause from the symbolism of the very specific area involving the heart.
Herpes labialis
Possible cause: Conflict of separation by kissing. I want the kiss and I am angry at not receiving it.
Herpes Genital
Possible cause: Conflict of separation by sexuality. I want to have sex with him/her and I am angry at not receiving it.
High blood pressure
See: Hypertension
Hips
Hips issues may be made up of many different components including but not limited to the following:
Possible cause: Sexual issues such as molestation, rape or self- devaluation of one’s sexual performance.
Other possible cause: Conflict of opposition, I can’t oppose myself.
Example: I can’t oppose myself towards my mother or my employer.
Hyperactivity
Hyperactivity may be made up of many different components including but not limited to the following.
Possible cause: Life-or-death stress in your family that has to do with immobility. Was someone perhaps found dead? Or perhaps somebody - even a child - was found dead or wasn’t moving at all? Whether a child died in its mother’s womb and was discovered not to be moving, we need to keep probing.
Note: Hyperactivity usually finds its root in the project-sense.
Hypertension
Father related. The source cause is often related from the memory of the father, grandfather or ancestor.
Possible cause: We are looking for a major leakage of blood. The blood “leak” could be the result of an accident of the “father”.
Example: A man was attacked and had his throat sliced by the aggressor. His daughter developed high blood pressure disease. The body is trying to stop the blood leak by squeezing the arteries. It is common that the child express the disease to unconsciously save the father. It is a principle of law of biology. See project-sense
Note: The blood vessels become tight and constricted, forcing your heart to pump harder to move blood through your body resulting in high blood pressure.
If we take a garden hose and squeeze it a little bit there is going be less water coming out, but the pressure at the end will be greater. If the hose leaks, the only way to stop the leak would be to squeeze it to reduce the leak.
Hypoglycaemia
Possible cause: A very traumatic experience, which leaves the victim feeling disgusted.
Example: Being raped.
Note: It is common that people with hypoglycaemia are disgusted by many things. For example, a person with hypoglycaemia will be totally disgusted by a dirty toilet. These people will not tolerate dirtiness. They like things very clean and they say; “That is so disgusting” very often.
I
Intestines
Possible cause: A “crappiness” or rottenness that I can’t digest.
K
Kidney
Possible cause: Conflict with liquid, any liquid.
Example: Drowning or memory of drowning.
Knees
There are several parts in the knee and each one has a specific meaning and a different source cause in relation to that part.
See “How the mind reacts when stress becomes too heavy”
Possible cause: The principal source cause of issues with knees is about being forced to obey with self-devaluation. A person with knees issues is doing something that he/she is forced to do and feel self-devaluated by doing it.
Other possible cause is: self-devaluation related sport.
Several knees issues are from a punishment of kneeling in the corner during childhood. The child is forced to obey by bending his knees.
Kneeling is also mandatory in spirituality; we have to kneel to pray. Knee issues may also be related to a conflict with spirituality.
Example: A highly educated person is forced to work at minimum wage because there is no work in his field and he feels self-devaluated about his job.
Example: An artist has a job that he hates and he is forced to do it because his art doesn’t bring in enough money. He feels self-devaluated by being forced to do such work.
L
Lactose intolerance
Possible cause: Very often lactose intolerance is caused by a separation from the mother.
The root cause is often from the project-sense, from weaning. The baby is breastfed and suddenly the mother is feeding him with cow’s milk that result of feeling separated.
Liver
Possible cause: Liver problems are related to conflicts from lacking essential necessities, such as food, money, or a loved one. Anything that is vital for you but that you miss very much.
Example: I am starving and I miss food very much.
Example: I miss a beloved very much
Example: I miss money; it is vital to have more money to feed my family.
Lungs
Possible cause: Lungs diseases are related to a fear of death.
Tuberculosis: The fear of death causes lung cancer, which may not even be noticed. When a person realizes that he/she survived lung cancer without realizing it, bacteria called mycobacterium tuberculosis has cleaned up the cancer cells in the lungs.
Example: In some third world countries, the tuberculosis rate is high in children who are younger than 6 months. Parents are scared that their baby will die. If the baby reaches 6 months old, they usually have a good chance of living. The parents fear of the death of their child is passed along to their child (See Project/Senses).
The child can develop minuscule lung cancer cells, which are not noticed. When the parents realize that the child will live because it has reached the critical age of 6 months, mycobacterium tuberculosis has cleaned up the lung cancer cells. Tuberculosis of their young child relapse the parents of their fear of losing their baby.
M
Meningitis
Possible Cause: Conflict of head injuries or any kind of threat to the brain.
Example: A person had a gun pointed to his head.
Other possible Cause: Memories of having the head cut off
Note: For a child with meningitis we need to find the memory of a threat on the head from the parents or grandparents.
Menopause
Possible cause: Women begin to feel self-conscious and worry about being old and not attractive to men. They realize that more than half of their life is over and that they don’t have that many years of life left.
Note: Women feel self-devaluated when:
• They are no longer fertile
• Wrinkles appear or they feel less pretty than they used to be.
• They are not as physically fit as they used to be.
Menstrual pain
See uterus
Metatarsalgia
See foot
Milk
(see lactose intolerance)
Related to the mother
Mononucleosis
Possible cause: Don’t feel ready to go further in an intimate relationship.
Muscle Diseases
Possible cause: Muscle diseases are about feeling powerlessness.
Mute
Possible cause: From the project-sense, not being allowed to talk at all cost.
Example: “If you talk, I will kill you” or “Do not ever tell this to anybody.”
Note: It is interesting to see that the dumb often have a name related to communication, such Roger or Graham (Graham Bell)
Myopia
Possible cause: Fear of proximity. The danger is near. I have to see clearly what is close by, to the detriment if sight of distant events.
Example: A boy dreads the slap from his alcoholic father
N
Nausea
Possible cause: Conflict to the rejection of what has been imposed
Example: Baby who vomits a lot: His mother rejects the idea of the caesarean.
Neck
Possible cause: Conflict of unfairness and injustice with communication issues.
Example: “It is unfair that I haven’t been told”.
Other possible cause: Memory of hanging or of having the head cut off.
Note: We can confirm the memory of hanging or beheading when a person has a special attraction to:
• Necklaces (Neck less: means without neck)
• Hair dresser (the hair dresser permanently makes the head look nice on the shoulders).
Usually these people feel uncomfortable viewing a picture of a hanging or of a guillotine.
O
Obesity
Obesity may be made up of many different components, including, but not limited to the following:
Possible cause: Obesity is often caused by abandonment. If you were abandoned when you were a baby or a young child, there is permanent worry about not being fed. An obese person has a food disorder because he must eat while there is food. If a baby or a young child is abandoned, he never knows if he going to be fed.
Note: There is a close connection between the stomach and the mother. When a baby is breastfed, the mother’s milk is digested by the stomach. An obese person has a tendency to eat because he misses his mother. A strict diet causes stress to an obese person because eating represents the mother’s warmth and love.
Ovarian cancer
Possible cause: A 'great loss' of a child or other loved one.
Osteoporosis
Possible cause: Deep self-devaluation of being old and physically incapable of doing as much as when younger.
P
Paralysis
Possible cause: Being trapped, cannot escape.
Pelvis Pain
The pelvis is involved in sexual activity.
Possible cause: Sexual-devaluation caused by things like : adultery, rape, or sexual abuse.
Premature Ejaculation
Possible cause: The man sneaks in and tries to mate very quickly with premature ejaculation - before he gets caught by the leader because he is not allowed to have sex and impregnate the women.
Presbyopia
Possible cause: Conflict stemmed from having a fear of death, a fear that you will die in the future.
Note: Presbyopia is often an age-related condition when a person realizes that he has passed the halfway point of his life.
Prostate Cancer
Possible cause: A man cannot ensure his descent. He would like to have children and grandchildren, but it unable for whatever reason.
Example: A man had a girl and a boy. His son died and his daughter is now 38 years old and still hasn’t had a child.
Note: Prostate diseases affect men who don’t have children or grandchildren or their child can’t ensure the blood line.
Pancreas
Possible cause: Strong repugnancy.
Peritoneum Cancer
Possible cause: Conflict of being attacked in the abdomen. The attack could be a surgery or a fear of having cancer in the abdomen area.
Note: The peritoneum is a layer that protects organs in the abdomen. Ovarian cancer surgery is seen as an attack in the abdomen. With peritoneum cancer, the body is trying to protect the abdomen.
R
Raynaud’s disease
Possible cause: Feeling stranded, stuck or that you can’t escape.
Example: In her childhood, a woman was forced to touch her aggressor's sexual organ. She developed Raynaud’s disease in her fingers.
Rectum
Possible cause: A “crappiness” or rottenness that you cannot "digest," get over and forget.
Example: A woman’s new boyfriend molested her daughter for over 6 months. After she found out, she was diagnosed with rectum cancer. He feeling was: "I can’t forgive to my self for the “crappiness” that he did to my daughter."
S
Snake
Related to the father.
Memory of to be poisoned
Scared of snakes
Possible cause: Scared of the father or father’s anger.
Shoulder
Shoulder issues may be made up of many different components
Possible cause: The painful motion is the exact motion related to the source cause. My first question would be: What is the motion that you are not able to do, or what motion is the most painful to do?
Example: A man cannot raise his arm and shoulder up and bring them down like hitting something on the ground. It turns out, he was hit by his father when he was a child.
Note: Generally, the shoulder is related to the father.
Shyness
Possible cause: Usually from the project-sense. The child is unwanted. He disturbs too much with his presence. The only way to be accepted is to be very quiet and take up as little space and presence as possible.
Note: A shy person is very quiet and doesn’t take his place in the world. Unconsciously a shy person is not allowed to disturb.
Stomach
Possible cause: Something that remains in the stomach that I can’t digest . It could be from any event but the feeling stays in the pit of the stomach and, like the food, cannot be digested.
Stomach ulcer
Possible cause: There are too many filthy things too digest.
Note: With an ulcer, the stomach is trying to make more room because there is too much to digest.
Stomach cancer
Possible cause: Something that stays in my stomach that is too hard to digest. It could be from any event but the feeling is that it stays in my stomach and it’s too hard to digest this.
Sterility
Sterility may be made up of many different components including but not limited to the following:
Possible cause: Pregnancy is a threat for my life.
Example: The mother of a sterile woman, died in childbirth of her.
Sun
Related to the father.
Example: A man glared into the sun. He found his father hanging in the garage.
Example: She glared into sun and was forced to kiss her father’s body
T
Tanning
Possible cause: Needing protection of the father or a shield to protect myself from the father. It could be from molestation by the father or anything that the father wasn’t there to protect me from.
Note: Tan is a shield of protection from the sun. (See sun)
Tendonitis
Possible cause: It is the self devaluation of the execution of the movement that causes tendonitis, not the repeated motions
See “How the mind reacts when stress becomes too heavy”
Example: A grocery clerk has to wrap her wrist because she feels self-devaluated by doing her job.
Note: It’s a belief that is caused by repetitive movement because every grocery clerk does the same repetitive movements.
Tennis elbow
Possible cause: It is the self devaluation of the execution of the movement that causes tennis elbow, not the repeated motions
See “How the mind reacts when stress becomes too heavy”
Testicular cancer
Possible cause: The loss of a beloved one, great loss of a child or other beloved.
Thinness
Possible cause: I have to be as small as possible (invisible) to hide from an aggressor.
Throat
Possible cause: Something that I can’t swallow.
Sore throat
Possible cause: Usually caused by a situation that I couldn’t express myself.
Example: Not being able to express yourself to your boss because he is your employer.
Torticollis
Possible cause: Torticollis occurs when I want to turn my head and I am prevented from doing so.
Example: A man is in a restaurant with his wife and he sees his ex-girlfriend sitting at another table. He wants to look but he can’t.
Tuberculosis
See Lungs
U
Urinary infection
See bladder
Uterus
Possible cause: Conflict of not being able to carry a child or any conflict that carrying a child may occur.
Menstrual pain
Example: A woman wanted a child with her husband, but he died before he gives her a child.
V
Varicose Veins
Possible cause: Heavy weight that you with you everywhere, drag like a ball and chain
Example: A woman who was raped became pregnant. This baby was a heavy burden, both physically and emotionally, to carry.
